Day: February 22, 2024
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The Three Paths
At the completion of discernment counseling, couples have gained a deeper understanding of what has happened to their marriage to get to the point where divorce is an option, and each spouse is aware of their own contributions to the problems. Based on this understanding and awareness, couples choose one of three paths for their…
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Explaining Discernment Counseling to my Leaning Out Spouse
If you find yourself as the leaning-in spouse, wanting to discuss discernment counseling with your partner, here are some thoughtful steps to approach the conversation: Choose the Right Time and Place: Find a quiet and comfortable setting where both of you can talk openly without distractions. Avoid bringing up the topic during heated moments or…
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Why marriage therapy often fails with mixed agenda couples
Marriage therapy can be a powerful tool for couples wanting to improve their relationship, but it doesn’t always yield positive results. In mixed-agenda couples, where one partner is leaning toward divorce while the other wants to preserve the relationship, traditional couples therapy may fall short. Traditional couples therapy assumes both partners are equally invested in…