Day: March 13, 2024
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Path 3 (therapy): The agreement to pursue reconciliation
When couples choose Path 3, it means they are commiting to a minimum of six months of all-in couples therapy with divorce off the table for that time. In preparation for that therapy, spouses each complete a Personal Agenda for Change (read about it here) and they jointly read and sign The Agreement to Pursue…
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Discernment counseling on a virtual platform
Discernment counseling can be done in-office or online. Some people have asked about the impact of doing discernment counseling online. In our experience, the online format is, at worst, just as effective as in-office sessions. Some couples who have done both actually report greater satisfaction with the virtual format. Why? There are many practical reasons…
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How the leaning out spouse can prepare for discernment counseling
As the leaning out spouse, you have probably already thought long and hard about ending the marriage. You’ve considered (or at least tried to consider) every angle. Having shared your desire to end the marriage with your spouse, you are now being challenged: Why not reconcile? Why not at least try couples counseling (again?) At…